Owning Your Emotions

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Last time I tried to define intimacy and discuss its major impact on our lives. Judging by the overwhelmingly positive response (thank you ♥) it resonated with many of you. Today I would like to talk about an important lesson I have had to learn again and again and again… because forging more intimacy in our lives is not as easy as flipping a switch, it starts with a conscious choice that is only the first step in a life-long, rewarding journey.

One of the most important (and sometimes most challenging) skills we need to develop in order to have healthy intimacy is taking responsibility for our own emotions. Part of this is establishing healthy boundaries, delineating where your own feelings begin and another person’s end, but much of it is an active, intentional practice.

This idea is not the most intuitive. I could tell you that to have better…

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Author: Ronnie Strong

Ronnie came to writing fine erotica via his studies and career in professional writing. He grew up in East Doncaster, during the sixties and seventies. Ronnie then lived in student share houses in Fitzroy during the 1980s. He moved further north in Melbourne's suburbs over the years. He also had an interlude in a country town and Melbourne’s inner western suburbs. He is now very settled in a little pocket of Reservoir near La Trobe University. That is where he completed his PhD. Ronnie is a working parent with young children. His day job as a policy officer with a government department is a bit of a distraction, but does pay the bills. Ronnie loves music and has been a David Bowie fan all his life. He follows the Sydney Swans AFL football club. He also like reading and great movies and television series.

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